mailyard wrote:i feel my kids should be exposed to different lifestyles
mailyard wrote:As far as marring outside of our race i hope my children do..it would be great to get the exposure of other cultures in my grandkids lives.
mailyard wrote:I also don't believe being gay is a "defect" it is a lifestyle not better or worse than ours!!
You sound like a caricature of a Vermont liberal.
Which lifestyles. Whips and chains, bondage, ... Kids shouldn't be exposed to lifestyles. They are kids. They can't understand this stuff. Are you going to expose your kids to the fundamentalist Christian lifestyle? Why not. Is this inferior to the gay lifestyle?
Why would you "hope" they married outside of their race? I can understand being neutral, but in all honestly, you should hope your children marry someone very much like themselves in race, religion, intelligence, education, culture, ... Not for some bigoted reasons, but this is most likely to lead to the greatest compatibility between husband and wife and all the in-laws, which is the best for any prospective grand kids. This is simply being so open-minded that your brain fell out.
If you are born gay. it is NOT a lifestyle. I do believe some people are born gay. They don't go marching down the street in leather with a gag in their mouth. They have a normal lifestyle with the obvious exception. This gay lifestyle nonsense is like having hooker and swingers front and center as representatives of the straight lifestyle and claiming you have to accept their behaviour because they are straight. Every pervert and degenerate is not exempt because they happen to be screwing others of the same sex.