Unfortunately the womens forum doesn't seem to get much action as far as looking for hunting friends... I've tried posting on my State's forum too, but for the most part it's all men from what I've found. Are you on facebook? You might want to try searching local groups that way, I was lucky to find a few women in my area and was invited in to their page on facebook and have met a few more poeple through there. There's definitely some active ladies out there, they just aren't easy to find!
Good luck, let me know if you ever move up to MA!