A B.O.W banquet? That's a little different than the stuff they do here, but it sounds like fun! Usually the Michigan BOW has outdoor events like learning how to shoot, winter camping, flyfishing, etc. And then they have some "Beyond BOW" events, like women's pheasant hunts.
I volunteered with WITO (Women in the Outdoors) a couple years ago. We ran an all day Saturday event with a bunch of different workshops that the attendee could pick. Workshops ran from walking stick making, flyfishing, pistol shooting, archery, shotguns, geocaching. All sorts of fun stuff. We tried to have a variety so the ladies that didn't feel comfortable shooting, still had fun stuff to do. It was a lot of fun, but the other ladies on the planning committee where pretty burnt out from planning it for years and they all said it was the last year they were going to do it.
I know you have a couple of boys, you might want to check out the NWTF (National Wild Turkey Federation's) Jake's program also. The NWTF also runs the WITO program. It's seems like a really good program for youth.
I've never been to a DU banquet but would like too. I've heard bring your $, lots of raffles and things. :)