Sometimes we send a PM, sometime we don't.
If altered for language or personal bashing, it should be obvious as to why it was altered and an [edited by Mod] will appear. Most moved posts still have the title in the forum it was posted unless it was way over the line of our rules.
Sometimes posts appear deleted, but were moved to an area where only Mods and Admins can see them, and generally it was for an infraction of adv/promotion or nasty personal bashing.
If you have anything else to specifically to bring up that you think was not handled well, drop me a PM and I'll look into it, but please give me all the details so I know where to look.
The Deputy riding shotgun