Not sure what having big hands would have to do with installing a recoil reducer. I am guessing your talking the one that goes in the stock? You just remove the nut and screw it in place. It will pretty much align itself once you place it in the stock. Do not drop it in as you can damage the threads. Just place it in gently and tighten it down. If yours has a lock washer, a small dab of grease will keep it stuck to the reducer as you place it down in the stock.
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